Explore every episode of Say Yes Again, where each week we bring you real conversations, fresh insights, and stories that encourage you to say “yes” to life again and again.
Episodes
Behind The Boss: The Softer Side of Professional Women in Love
In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and her partner Tony discuss the unique challenges professional women face in dating and relationships. They debunk myths about financial expectations, emphasizing the importance of emotional support, authenticity, and understanding each other's need for space. The conversation highlights how career-driven women can balance independence with vulnerability, set healthy boundaries, and avoid treating relationships like business transactions. The episode concludes with advice for dating with purpose and an invitation to their upcoming speed dating event for singles over 40.
Are Men Afraid of Dating Powerful Women?
In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," hosts Dr. Lisa and Tony discuss the challenges and rewards of dating professional, powerful women. They explore why some men feel intimidated by women in leadership roles, examining issues such as ego, power dynamics, and societal expectations. Drawing from their own relationship, they emphasize the importance of support, communication, flexibility, and mutual respect. The conversation encourages both men and women to look beyond titles and income, focusing instead on partnership, authenticity, and celebrating each other's strengths. The episode concludes with practical advice and a promise to continue the discussion in a future episode.
The Real Meaning of “Saying Yes Again”: Choosing Love Every Day
In this episode of Saying Yes Again, Dr. Lisa and Tony dive into what it really means to “say yes again” — not just once at the altar, but every single day. With warmth, humor, and honesty, they unpack the small, practical choices that keep love alive: patience, grace, communication, and laughter (yes, even when socks are on the floor).
Love After Loss: Finding Hope When You Thought Your Heart Was Broken Forever
After divorce, grief, or major life upheaval, it’s easy to believe your heart is too broken to ever love again. But what if those very cracks are what prepare you for a deeper, more meaningful love?
In this episode of Saying Yes Again, Dr. Lisa and Tony explore how heartbreak doesn’t have to be the end of your love story. They share how grief can refine us — giving us greater empathy, clearer priorities, and stronger boundaries — and how those lessons make space for real, lasting connection.
Whether you’re newly divorced, grieving, or simply unsure if love is possible again, this conversation will remind you: your story isn’t over. Love after loss is real — and it may be the most beautiful chapter yet.
What Women Want from Men in Midlife Relationships
In this episode, Dr. Lisa shares the five traits she wanted in Tony — and what she believes most women are looking for in midlife love. Tony chimes in with his honest (and hilarious) reactions, making this a heartfelt and eye-opening conversation for both men and women.
What Men Want in Midlife Love: 5 Traits Women Should Know
In this episode, Tony opens up about the five traits he craved after divorce, and Dr. Lisa breaks down why these traits create healthy, lasting relationships. Together, they share personal stories and practical insights that will inspire both men and women to see love through a fresh lens.
Health is Sexy: Prioritizing Your Wellness for a Vibrant Second Act
In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony, a midlife couple who found love after divorce, discuss how prioritizing health and vitality strengthens relationships, especially in midlife. They share personal routines—like walking, exercising, and making healthy smoothies—and highlight the importance of regular checkups, nutrition, sleep, and mental wellness. The conversation also covers navigating menopause, supporting partners through change, and maintaining emotional and spiritual connection. They encourage listeners to adopt new healthy habits, both individually and as a couple, to build a strong foundation for lasting love and happiness.
Body Confidence Over 40: Reclaiming Your Sexy After Divorce
In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony explore body confidence after 50, discussing the challenges of aging, societal pressures, and redefining what it means to feel sexy. They share personal stories, practical tips like dancing and dressing for your current body, and encourage listeners to celebrate both physical and non-physical qualities. With warmth and humor, they invite their audience to embrace self-love and confidence at any age, offering a reflective homework assignment and welcoming listener input to continue the conversation about reclaiming your sexy in midlife.
Too Old or Too Broken to Find Love Again? Real Talk on Trust, Baggage and Starting Over
In this episode of the "Saying Yes Again" podcast, hosts Dr. Lisa and Toni, a midlife couple who found love after divorce, tackle the negative self-talk that often follows heartbreak. Through rapid-fire reframes, they challenge beliefs like “I’m too old,” “I have too much baggage,” and “There are no good men left,” encouraging listeners to adopt empowering perspectives. Sharing personal stories and practical advice, they emphasize the importance of positive self-talk, self-awareness, and an abundance mindset to attract love and happiness at any stage of life.
Opposites Attract: Our Real Life Love Story From Different Worlds
In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony share their journey as a midlife couple who found love after divorce by dating outside their comfort zones. They discuss overcoming differences in background, profession, and culture, emphasizing the importance of shared values like spirituality and family. Using personal stories and celebrity examples, they encourage listeners to be open-minded and flexible in dating, highlighting that true compatibility is about values, not superficial similarities. The hosts wrap up with practical tips and invite listeners to connect, reminding everyone that love can come from an unexpected “yes.”
Why I Almost Canceled Our First Date (And How It Changed Everything)
In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony delve into the challenges of vulnerability when dating after 50, particularly following heartbreak or divorce. They share personal stories and practical advice on overcoming fear, recognizing red and green flags, and building trust through small steps. Drawing on Dr. Lisa’s background, they discuss the science behind emotional openness and offer guidance on creating safe spaces for connection. The hosts encourage listeners to embrace vulnerability as a strength, reminding them it’s never too late to say “yes” again to love and new beginnings.
You’re Not Broken: Stop Feeling Guilty For Being Happy After Divorce
In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the guilt many feel when finding happiness after divorce. Challenging societal expectations that equate visible suffering with caring, they encourage listeners to embrace joy without apology. Drawing on personal experiences and public figures like Cardi B and Teyana Taylor, the hosts discuss setting boundaries, celebrating small wins, and reframing happiness as a sign of growth. Their heartfelt conversation reassures listeners that moving forward is a healthy choice, and choosing happiness after heartbreak is both valid and courageous.
Navigating Love & Relationships: How to Define Your Non-Negotiables and Stay Flexible
In this episode, Dr. Lisa and Tony discuss the concept of non-negotiables in relationships, emphasizing their importance in dating and partnerships. They explore personal criteria for finding the right partner, share their own non-negotiables, and highlight the significance of flexibility in relationships. The conversation aims to provide insights and advice for listeners navigating their own dating journeys.
Finding Yourself Again: The Art of Self-Discovery Post-Divorce
In this episode of Saying Yes Again, Dr. Lisa and Tony dive into the journey of rebuilding your identity after 50—navigating loss, rediscovering passions, and creating a vibrant new chapter of life. With heartfelt stories and practical advice, they encourage you to embrace growth, self-healing, and fresh opportunities for connection.
Emotional Baggage Check
Ready to unpack your emotional baggage before diving back into the dating scene? In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Tony and I tackle the crucial topic of recognizing and addressing unhealed wounds that can hold you back from forming new connections.
We share our personal experiences of navigating the complexities of dating after divorce, including the signs that indicate you might not be ready to date yet. From trust issues to oversharing, we discuss the patterns that can emerge and how to identify them.
Tune in to "Saying Yes Again" for insights on how to show up as the best version of yourself when dating again. Let’s embrace the journey of healing and rediscovery together! Listen now and be part of the conversation!
Our Story: Embracing New Beginnings in Love and Life
In the first episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony share their personal journeys of finding love after divorce in midlife. They discuss the challenges, fears, and emotional hurdles of dating again, emphasizing the importance of healing, self-discovery, and realistic expectations. Through candid conversation and their own love story, they offer hope and encouragement to listeners navigating similar paths, highlighting that it’s never too late to open your heart and say yes to new possibilities. The episode sets the stage for future discussions on relationships, growth, and second chances.
Trailer: Saying Yes Again
You thought the chapter had closed. But life—and love—had other plans.
Welcome to Saying Yes Again, the podcast for anyone who’s been through heartbreak, divorce, or loss and is brave enough to believe in love one more time.
Hosted by Dr. Lisa and Tony Goudy, this show shares their own story of finding love again in midlife, after divorce and doubt. Through candid conversations and honest reflections, they explore the journey of healing, rediscovery, and learning to open your heart to new possibilities.
Whether you're just starting to heal, wondering if love is still possible, or already living your second love story, Saying Yes Again is your companion for inspiration, laughter, and hope.
Because the next "yes" could be the one that changes everything.
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